Meet Stephanie

I'm Stephanie Roese, founder of Unseen Scars. I built this quiz because I spent years wondering if I was the problem — and I found out, I wasn't.

If any part of this feels familiar, you're not overreacting, and you're not alone.

Decoding Covert Abuse is part of Unseen Scars trauma-informed digital tools platform, built by someone who's lived through exactly what this quiz is designed to name.

I specialize in one thing: helping you tell the difference between normal conflict and the kind of control that convinces you it's your fault. 

No generic wellness advice, no one-size-fits-all fixes. Just an honest look at what's actually happening in your relationship, and the tools to make sense of it.

You don't have to figure this out alone.